We have harps like that. They're just called harps. Anyone can play them, though the high harp is usually played by highborn ladies. What's a movie? And the life of a knight or a maester or a man of the Night's Watch just isn't [she's trying to remember her explanations of why from home] suitable for a lady.

It's good of you to help those in need. Sometimes, my mother has me accompany her to orphanages and poorhouses to distribute food to those in need of charity.